Well well well! Stubborn child, we all know that some children are indeed stubborn and they need some kind of tricks to be handled.
So here in this article, I am going to talk about the powerful parenting skills, I’m writing about the ways to understand and communicate that you probably never heard before. So here I will be giving the answers for things like poor child behavior, tantrums and much more.
I have to assume, If you’re reading this, then you probably one of those parents who been dealing with a lot of stress or anxiety that stems from being a parent. We love our kids so much and yet sometimes they can drive us crazy and their behavior and actions may worry us that we aren’t doing our job of raising them. I’ve heard from lots of moms and dads, who feel like they’re failing as parents and know you want peace and quiet back in your home and you’re not alone.
The good news is that you can get the changes you want; my experience proves that you can actually turn things around and you can literally be going to enjoy your kids and time as a parent much more than you want.
So I have mentioned few strategies or you can simply say 4 tips to handle a stubborn child, these can help you in handling your stubborn child, at least in some situations!
1. Request or instruction
Either you can request them or instruct them at one time. It would be better if you instruct them what to do after you requested them. Doing both he things all together is not a good option.
One strategy that can work well with the toddler is, distraction, when they are fixed with something and not understanding what you’re saying, all you need to do is distract them from whatever they are doing.
3. Show them the consequences-
Stubborn children always try to take control of any situation- stubborn children need to witness consequences, to their actions as opposed to reacting to reasoning. You need to understand your child, take away the child from the situation when he doesn’t respect your wishes. For ex- if the child is misbehaving in the restaurant, leave the restaurant.
Empathy is one of the most powerful tools that help them overcome their selfish behavior because; they do have an innate ability to feel for other people. Kids don’t think much before doing any action but yes, when you make them think they do react positively to it.
Most of the problems you’re facing with your child are not your fault; think about it, kids don’t come here with the instruction manual. When you had expected your first child, you may have taken one of those parenting classes, the ones that teach you how to hold a baby, how to feed etc., sure it’s important stuff but it’s actually easy when compared to terrible twos, threes or as my friends says freaking fours.
These are the best of the tips to handle a stubborn child. Do follow them and see the results.